A Guy’s View on Modesty
One young woman recently said, “I’ve noticed that guys are more likely to pay attention to girls who are dressed immodestly—that sends a totally wrong message to those of us who are dressing modestly.”
Another told us, “You need to tell guys how we girls feel when they pay attention to immodestly dressed girls. When boys do that we start wondering ‘should I wear shorter shorts so boys notice me?’ Sometimes a modestly dressed girl can only think: ‘Am I doing the right thing? What is wrong with me?’ I’ve known girls that have cried because guys paid all the attention to the immodestly dressed girls. Why would a girl cry because of it? Because it took her courage to dress modestly, and then she found out that some boys GO FOR THE IMMODEST GIRLS! We lose all admiration for boys who act like this.”
So what do guys really think about modesty?
Obviously, there are some guys who don’t care about modesty — and young women, you probably don’t want to go for those kind of boys! There are many guys out there (like the ones in the above video) who really appreciate young women who make the effort to dress modestly.
One young man recently said, “It is so much easier to talk to a girl when she is modest. I know that some guys are attracted to immodest girls, but they aren’t the kind of guys you want to be with anyways. Just like girls aren’t impressed with guys who try to show off, we aren’t impressed with immodest girls.”
Young women — it’s worth the wait to attract the guy who values and appreciates modesty. He will be more likely to value and reverence your womanhood.